Sit at the Bar
The Why
The reason to sit at the bar is the way to further create experiences during your life journey. When I say "sit at the bar", I mean sit at the bar at a drinking establishment (or restaurant). It is hard to grab a stool, sit at the bar, order a drink, and try not to become absorbed on the phone. It is much less intimidating to get a table hence creating an isolation from other patrons. You also build a barrier of distance from the inception of your drink. At the bar, you can watch your cocktail being made or your dram poured. Yes, a seat at the bar can be a scary place and create a paralysis riddled with anxiety.
Allow yourself to yield to fears and sit at the bar for the sole purpose to engage interesting folk. Sometimes you must wait and see what happens as conversations take an awkward course. The way is woven into the small awkward chatter that could or may lead to existential moments. You deserve to be in that room along with that seat at the bar.
Sit at the bar. Order a Whisk(e)y. Find your Grail.
The Way will be presented.